Terrible two


2 bochhor ki nostalgia-y bhogar pokkhe jotheshto diirgho somoy? ekhon jodi apnader boli aj theke 2 ti Bosonto ar 24 ti puurNima ar ke jane kotoshoto joyar-bhNata age, ek jemontemon Budhbarer sodhyey, amar ghorer secondhand lamp-er mitmite holde alor tolay bose ami bola nei kowa nei Abantor likhte shuru korechhilam, seta ki khub adikhyeta shonabe?
Goto 2 bochhore ja ja ghotlo, phurolo, notun kore shuru holo, “ar jabo na” nakkhot diye kNede phire ese NyaRa abaro Beltolar dike gutiguti hNata lagalo, sesober tatporjo jothartho anudhabon korte hole apekkha kora chhaRa goti nei. aj theke bochhor 25 pore somoy, hoy amar kkhomar ajogyo bhulgulo chokhe angul diye dhoriye debe, noyto pithh chapRe bolbe, “good job.”
Abantor amar dinrattirer kotota gobhhiire daag rekhe gelo, ba adou rekhe gelo kina, seta jante holeo amake apekkha kortei hobe.
Kom se kom 10 bochhor to botei.
Kintu otodin porer kotha bhebe ar jei bNachuk, ami bNachi na. ei muhuurter kotha jodi jigges koren tahole bolbo 2 bochhor ek chhader tolay baas korar poreo, Abantor-er sathe madhuchandrima ekhono phuroyni amar. Abantor ekhono amar ‘Best Friend Forever’.
HNya kichhu ‘compromise’ to thakei. premik-premikara bhaben compromise, adjustment, compatibility esob shokto shokto ingriji shobdo bujhi tNaderi ekchetiya. kintu seta sotyi noy. Abantor-er patay notun mukh dekhle saradin mon bhalo thake jemon, temni 7 din post na korle ‘stats’ check korte giye buk durdur kore. ke jane, sobai chole gechhe bujhi.
Ar 5 ta somporker motoi, ei somporkotao amake ‘vulnerable’ kore chheRechhe.
Kintu ami tate ghabRachchhi na motei. karoN Sugata achhen, Sumana achhe, Mohor, Raka, Bong mom, Ru, Sohini sobai achhe. aro jNader ami naam jani mukh chinina, mukh chini naam janina, mukh naam dui-i chini tar baire ar kichhu janina, emonki jNader naam mukh konotai chinina, tNarao achhen.
JNara na thakle Abantor-er prolaper aro-i kono mane thakto na. ki bhoyanok byapar hoto bolun dekhi.
Tobe tai bole sob bhule bhese gele cholbe na. samne kothhin somoy. bisheshognora ki bolen janen to? 2 bochhor paar korar porer ei somoytitei naki shoriire-mone nanarokom bicholon ghote. Temper tantrum tunge othhe, achena lok toffee dile nirdwidhay tar pechhon pechhon bohuduur chole jawa jay, nijer khelnay haat dite ele poRshir bachchar chokhe angul dhukiye dewar proboNota dekha dey, restaurant-er high chair-e pa jhuliye bose pasher table taak kore kNata chamoch chhNoRar moto chomotkar idea-o ei somoyei mathay ase.
Kajei apnara seat-belt bNedhe bosun. ami praNpoN cheshta korbo sobkichhu jothasadhyo niyontroNe rakhte. ta sotweo jodi pothe ghono ghono bumper dekha dey, amake eka phele chole jaben na jeno.

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  1. Aare Abantor er 2 bachhor purti te anek anek abhinandon Kuntala. Apnar kachhe Abantor katota seta amra bujhi to botei, kintu amader kachhe Abantor katota seta apni puropuri bojhen kina janina. Roj sakale uthe Abantor e notun post poRlo kina dekha ta ekta kaje dNaRiye gechhe ei gato ek bachhor e. Apni aro anek sundor sundor post likhun, Abantor aro anek anek baRo hok, etai amader sobar kamona.

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  2. Ami ei prothom baar, Sugata da-r protyek ta kotha, bakyo byay na kore somorthon korchi! Abantor, Happy Birthday.

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  3. Oma dui hoye o gelo ? Koi amay to keu evite pathalo na, ekta lal-shobuj frosting wala cake er piece dilo na, emonki return gift o pelam na. Jai hok Abantor, tomar Mommy har-kipte, kintu tomay amra darun bhalobashi, tai Hap Hap Happy Birthday.

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  4. Sugata, thank you thank you. apnar kachhe Abantor kritogno. dhonyo apnar dhoirjo. apni songe thakben eta ar asha noy, dabi.

    Sumana, thank you. Abantor tomake chhaRao achol.

    Bong mom, are ami amader chhotobelar style-e jonmodin palon korar cheshta korchhilam to. aboshyo tahole apnader amar antoto duto kore Eclairs dewa uchit chhilo, manchhi. sotyi anyay hoye gechhe. ta sotweo apni raag korenni dekhe ami ar Abantor dujonei hNap chheRechhi. Thank you.

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  5. sob kichukei ki somoyer unit diye mapa jay? ba somoyer ekok tai ki atota homogeneous? ami to dekhechi anek bar i dudin e ami hoyto bochorkhaneker bnacha bneche niyechi;abar 2 ghontar tofaatei je onubhuti ta peyechi tar nostalgia chara ar naam hoyna..

    abantor er songe tomar bondhu aro garho hok, e rose notun rosik ami ektukui boli...:)

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  6. Swagata, thik bolechho. somoy bhoyanok golmele jinis. take mapte gele ba tar sahajyo niye anyo kichhuke mapte gele bipoder ashongka achhe.

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  7. kuntala... abantor ke onek onek shubhechha ar tar maker ke bhalobasha... likhte thako.. ei adda chere keu jabe na, nishchinto thako.
    majhe majhe to addar topic ero mejaj poriborton hoy.. tai ektu adhtu edik odik cholbe bondhu...
    abar nijer nam dekhte peye khushi hoye gechhi...otai oi 2to eclairs hishebe grohon korlam apatoto... bhalo theko.

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